#follow up

Follow up

J.N.C. Dandison

Let’s talk about follow up

Let me tell you a truth;
You may have lost that job you applied for because you didn’t follow up,
You may have lost that client or customer because you didn’t follow up,
You may have missed selling the item you introduced to a potential buyer because you didn’t follow up,
You may have failed to receive the help you sought for from a friend, brother or whoever, because you didn’t follow up.

Follow up is a very essential factor in achieving your goals and therefore attaining success.
Follow up simply means, a continuation or repetition of something already started or already done.
You may have applied for a job and you were told you would be called if something comes up or that you should call back after a given time. You owe it to yourself, for your own success, to call back even if you have not heard from them. You have to visit the office again and ask whether you have been considered for the employment or if a vacancy has come up. This is called follow up.

Follow up serves the following purposes and more;
1. It shows your genuine interest in the Job/sale/customer.
2. It shows your level of dedication to tasks.
3. It places distinguishes out from the loads of persons that might have shown interest in the job/sale/service or might have marketed similar goods/services.
4. It can sway the employer’s/Customer/Client’s mind in your favour.
5. It will enable you not to miss an opportunity.

When I recently graduated from the Law School and was licensed to practise as a Lawyer, I walked the streets for placement in a Law firm. It wasn’t easy, but I am glad I undertook it. Some offices I visited informed me they had no vacancy; one informed me that they did not want female lawyers; some asked me to call back. I followed up on my earlier visits. I negotiated with the one that informed me, they didn’t want female Lawyers. I asked the interviewer the actual reason they didn’t want female Lawyers and he responded that they didn’t want interference of husbands (demands and family issues) with the office work. So I informed him that I was not yet married, so he offered me the employment on the ground that I would resign once I got married. Being that I was a fresher, and needed all the experiences I could get, I accepted the offer and told him to give me two week before I could resume. I continued my job hunt in case I find a better offer.

I followed up on one that asked me to call back. I visited the office on the day I was asked to call back, after waiting for over 2 hour, I met with the Managing Partner who informed me that he needed to discuss with his partner before he would know if they would accept me. He said he actually forgot to discuss with him and gave me another day to come back for feedback.  The distance from my house to the place was quite far and I was expending money which I didn’t have to make these visits, but I continued until on the fourth visit when I was accepted. Being that it was a full placement, unlike the conditional one I was offered earlier, I chose it over the earlier one and started my Law Practice with them.
So what have I been saying so far? If I had not followed up, if I had allowed discrimination, fear, self-doubt, anger, frustration or pride to stop me from following up, I would not have got the offers I got and maybe, I would not have been gainfully employed.

Please share your experience on what you have achieved by following up or what you failed to achieve or lost by not following up.

#Embracing the BAD.

 Embracing the BAD
J. N. C. Dandison
I am so happy I was always owed my salary, for months, I am also happy I have experienced hunger and lack of food of in my life because without these and more I would not have a acquired the knowledge and skills and achievements I have acquired today. The essence of experience, whether positive or negative, is for one to truly and effectively understand a thing, a feeling, a circumstance or condition to enable the person have a first hand knowledge of the thing, feeling, circumstance or condition and to most importantly, learn from it. For instance, if you have never been sick, you will not fully know the experience of being sick, so you cannot authoritatively tell someone how a sick persons actually feels, the emotions, the discomfort, the extent of pain and how much he wishes to be better.

It is popularly said that 'experience is the best teacher' but this saying is always taken for granted. Every experience, hard or soft, is a foundation to birth a new achievement in life. If you go hungry for a period of time because of lack of food or money, you will fully understand what deprivation is. It will enable you learn to empathize with anybody that may be in that situation in the future or you know to currently be in the position. It will also enable you, if you are a positive minded person, to strive never to be in that condition again.

Can you truly birth anything without pain? The answer is no. So I have found out that understanding and owning every experience you have gone through or are going through is the building material for the future each person intends to attain. Therefore, one most take time to learn and understand every experience, even those seen as bad experiences today, because the lesson learned, if implemented, will bear the fruit of success. It is not often easy to bear the pain, but the understanding of the purpose of the pain and the promised achievement thereafter makes the process worthwhile. Have you ever seen the smile of a newly delivered mother when her baby is put in her arms or the celebration of footballers after they have won a tournament? Then you will understand what I mean. Been there, done that and still doing it. Embrace all and keep achieving.
-J. N. C. Dandison

#confession

I am in Love (Confession)
J. N. C. Dandison


I am in love with three.
May not make sense to some.
But I know what I'm feeling.
First had a relationship with
them but no intimacy.
I knew they love me but not
the extent each does and the power
of their love.


The first told me he loves me
He showed me breathtaking
love and care. He gave me his
loved possessions.
Yet I took him for granted.
He told me that none can love me
like he does.

The second always wanted me
to give him all my heart.
He asks that I totally submit
to him.
I always knew he loves me but
did not know how to submit my
being, life, aspirations and future
to another. I didn't know what my fate would be. He assured me that I 
will not regret if I submit to him.

The third.
The third is subtle, allowing me to make my choices but always 
alerting me of my options.
He is ever reliable. Have not
seen any like him.
He knows when I make wrong
choices and the would be outcome of my choices. His patience is outstanding.
Above all he knows how to correct me.

I can't choose either one of the three.
They make me whole and always
have my back.
With the three I know peace, I have beauty and satisfaction.
I have tasted the love of the three. They love me like no other, 
they fight my battles, make plan for me, provide for me and dote on me.

I love them THREE, the Father, 
the Son and Holy Spirit.
They have awed and dazzled me 
with their Love. This makes loving
them easy. 
I know they love you too.
I know that I love to share.
Please open your heart to the 
THREE and enjoy their awesomeness.

I introduce God the father, God the Son (Jesus) and God the Holy spirit
to you. Your heart will never be broken.

#My heart, Myself

My heart, myself

I seek that I may not seek
Though I find a little
My heart so meek allow
That which I find to trickle to those
Who seek of me

What ought I do?
Not to seek?
Not to allow to trickle
To those that seek of me?

To sit and seek of others?
Or to seek and trickle to find that
Which I have known not
Or till I can seek no more?

I know the faith which I have
That I may fall, but not be trampled
That I always end in victory
Though never easily gotten.
-JNC
Aug. 2016

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#Never a dull moment





Never a dull moment By Judith Dandison

NEVER A DULL MOMEMT: Responsibility Breeds Character.

Character as referred to here is in the sense of positive strength. Years ago when I was about 16 Years old, straight out of High/Secondary School. I had the idea of picking up a small job, not that I knew the kind of Job I wanted, or that I wanted the job because I had an Idea of what I could earn or that I actually understood the value and need for money. I was just naive, I just wanted to get a Job because that was what every of my fellow classmates said they would do once we graduated. On arriving home after a day long journey from my school, as I schooled several States away from Home, I told my father that I would start searching for a small Job the next day which I would do till I secured admission in the University. He did not utter a word. The next day, I woke up in the morning dressed up and matched to my father and said; “Dad, I’m ready to go and look for the Job”. He looked at me as if he was hearing it for the first time and answered in his usual stern voice, ” Work where? I have a Supermarket downstairs, go and be a sales girl there and I’ll pay you monthly”. That is how I began a serious and demanding Job that I did for the next 3 Years before I was able to secure an admission into the University to study law. Ironically I was only paid for the first one month and thereafter I was not paid again. Lessons learned from this Stint. My dad has always been a strict father, who does not allow for unnecessary socializing, lazing about and expects one to give every Assignment his/her best. His slogan is ‘Never a dull moment’. He rarely gives you money but expects integrity. The journey was not easy ‘at all’ but it molded my Character. I became stronger and more determined than most of by peers. I became very bold and a leader because at a time I was in charge of running the Supermarket and the Beauty Salon which demanded a lot of tough skin and confidence. So till date, I strive to do well in everything I do, not putting money first. I am satisfied and fulfilled when I get good results and I tell you this good results have been paying with both recommendations and money. In my work as a legal practitioner, this Strength of Character has been my most priced tool. I am grateful to God and my father for the experience and opportunity as I am a strong believer that things rarely happen by chance.