#follow up

Follow up

J.N.C. Dandison

Let’s talk about follow up

Let me tell you a truth;
You may have lost that job you applied for because you didn’t follow up,
You may have lost that client or customer because you didn’t follow up,
You may have missed selling the item you introduced to a potential buyer because you didn’t follow up,
You may have failed to receive the help you sought for from a friend, brother or whoever, because you didn’t follow up.

Follow up is a very essential factor in achieving your goals and therefore attaining success.
Follow up simply means, a continuation or repetition of something already started or already done.
You may have applied for a job and you were told you would be called if something comes up or that you should call back after a given time. You owe it to yourself, for your own success, to call back even if you have not heard from them. You have to visit the office again and ask whether you have been considered for the employment or if a vacancy has come up. This is called follow up.

Follow up serves the following purposes and more;
1. It shows your genuine interest in the Job/sale/customer.
2. It shows your level of dedication to tasks.
3. It places distinguishes out from the loads of persons that might have shown interest in the job/sale/service or might have marketed similar goods/services.
4. It can sway the employer’s/Customer/Client’s mind in your favour.
5. It will enable you not to miss an opportunity.

When I recently graduated from the Law School and was licensed to practise as a Lawyer, I walked the streets for placement in a Law firm. It wasn’t easy, but I am glad I undertook it. Some offices I visited informed me they had no vacancy; one informed me that they did not want female lawyers; some asked me to call back. I followed up on my earlier visits. I negotiated with the one that informed me, they didn’t want female Lawyers. I asked the interviewer the actual reason they didn’t want female Lawyers and he responded that they didn’t want interference of husbands (demands and family issues) with the office work. So I informed him that I was not yet married, so he offered me the employment on the ground that I would resign once I got married. Being that I was a fresher, and needed all the experiences I could get, I accepted the offer and told him to give me two week before I could resume. I continued my job hunt in case I find a better offer.

I followed up on one that asked me to call back. I visited the office on the day I was asked to call back, after waiting for over 2 hour, I met with the Managing Partner who informed me that he needed to discuss with his partner before he would know if they would accept me. He said he actually forgot to discuss with him and gave me another day to come back for feedback.  The distance from my house to the place was quite far and I was expending money which I didn’t have to make these visits, but I continued until on the fourth visit when I was accepted. Being that it was a full placement, unlike the conditional one I was offered earlier, I chose it over the earlier one and started my Law Practice with them.
So what have I been saying so far? If I had not followed up, if I had allowed discrimination, fear, self-doubt, anger, frustration or pride to stop me from following up, I would not have got the offers I got and maybe, I would not have been gainfully employed.

Please share your experience on what you have achieved by following up or what you failed to achieve or lost by not following up.

#Embracing the BAD.

 Embracing the BAD
J. N. C. Dandison
I am so happy I was always owed my salary, for months, I am also happy I have experienced hunger and lack of food of in my life because without these and more I would not have a acquired the knowledge and skills and achievements I have acquired today. The essence of experience, whether positive or negative, is for one to truly and effectively understand a thing, a feeling, a circumstance or condition to enable the person have a first hand knowledge of the thing, feeling, circumstance or condition and to most importantly, learn from it. For instance, if you have never been sick, you will not fully know the experience of being sick, so you cannot authoritatively tell someone how a sick persons actually feels, the emotions, the discomfort, the extent of pain and how much he wishes to be better.

It is popularly said that 'experience is the best teacher' but this saying is always taken for granted. Every experience, hard or soft, is a foundation to birth a new achievement in life. If you go hungry for a period of time because of lack of food or money, you will fully understand what deprivation is. It will enable you learn to empathize with anybody that may be in that situation in the future or you know to currently be in the position. It will also enable you, if you are a positive minded person, to strive never to be in that condition again.

Can you truly birth anything without pain? The answer is no. So I have found out that understanding and owning every experience you have gone through or are going through is the building material for the future each person intends to attain. Therefore, one most take time to learn and understand every experience, even those seen as bad experiences today, because the lesson learned, if implemented, will bear the fruit of success. It is not often easy to bear the pain, but the understanding of the purpose of the pain and the promised achievement thereafter makes the process worthwhile. Have you ever seen the smile of a newly delivered mother when her baby is put in her arms or the celebration of footballers after they have won a tournament? Then you will understand what I mean. Been there, done that and still doing it. Embrace all and keep achieving.
-J. N. C. Dandison